Women's Legal Resource
We Shall Conquer Untruth By Truth And In Resisting Untruth We Shall Put Up With All Suffering
Divorce
- Grounds For Divorce
- No-Fault
- Procedure
- Time Line
- Contested/Non Contested
- Military Divorce
- Family Law
- Child Support
- Child Visitation
- Ventura Superior Court
- Supreme Court
- Psychological Evaluations
- Reunification Therapy
- Lundy Bancroft
Domestic Violence
- Common Myths
- Domestic Violence - Definition
- Who Are The Victims?
- Who Are The Abusers?
- Violence Wheel
- Cycle of Violence
- Struggles of Trauma
- Why Women Won't Leave
- Abuse Hotlines
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Victims Rights
Michigan State Police records from 1997 show that a woman is killed by a partner or former partner about once a week in Michigan. In 1998, the Michigan State Police reported more than 5,000 victims of domestic violence in Oakland County. Domestic violence only happens to poor women and women of color.
Domestic violence happens in all kinds of families and relationships. Persons of any class, culture, religion, sexual orientation, marital status, age, and sex can be victims or perpetrators of domestic violence.
Some people deserve to be hit.
No one deserves to be abused. Period. The only person responsible for the abuse is the abuser. Physical violence, even among family members, is wrong and against the law. Alcohol, drug abuse, stress, and mental illness cause domestic violence.
Alcohol use, drug use, and stress do not cause domestic violence; they may go along with domestic violence, but they do not cause the violence. Abusers often say they use these excuses for their violence. Generally, domestic violence happens when an abuser has learned and chooses to abuse. Domestic violence is rarely caused by mental illness, but it is often used as an excuse for domestic violence. Domestic violence is a personal problem between a husband and a wife.
Domestic violence affects everyone. About 1 in 3 American women have been physically or sexually abused by a husband or boyfriend at some point in their lives. (Commonwealth Fund, Health Concerns Across a Woman's Lifespan: the Commonwealth Fund 1998 Survey of Women's Health, 1999) In 1996, 30% of all female murder victims were killed by their husbands or boyfriends. (Federal Bureau of Investigation, 1997) 40% to 60% of men who abuse women also abuse children. (American Psychological Association, Violence and the Family, 1996)
If it were that bad, she would just leave.
There are many reasons why women may not leave. Not leaving does not mean that the situation is okay or that the victim want to be abused. Leaving can be dangerous. The most dangerous time for a woman who is being abused is when she tries to leave. (United States Department of Justice, National Crime Victim Survey, 1995)
MANY VICTIMS DO LEAVE AND LEAD SUCCESSFUL, VIOLENCE FREE LIVES
- Why Does He Do That?
- Assessing Risk of Children
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